Engagement Session Style Guide

Engagement sessions are our favorite way to get to know our couples before the big day itself! We always have a lot of fun!

Here are a few tips we recommend when planning your engagement session:


  • We typically schedule engagement sessions for weekday evenings and the occasional Saturday morning sunrise session.
  • Plan on about an hour of shooting time.
  • Our favorite locations are the less-manicured areas with tall grasses, sagebrush, rocks, and water, but there are also some beautifully landscaped locations in Southern Idaho available for you to choose from!
  • Most clients wear two outfits: One more formal and one still dressy but more casual.
    • Formal: We suggest a collared shirt/suit for the guys and a dress/skirt for the girls. We LOVE a beautiful maxi-dress, but tea length is also great! We generally suggest not going any shorter than mid-thigh to make posing easier and more flattering. 
    • Casual: Jeans/slacks and a nice top. 
  • Some things to avoid: 
    • Large logos or writing
    • White sneakers (dress shoes, sandals & boots are great!)
    • Ball caps (or wearing one prior to the session... hat hair!)
    • Dressing too matchey-matchey (think coordinating colors, not matching!)
  • Some things we encourage:
    • Texture! Subtle patterns and layers are great! 
    • Accessorize a little more than you normally would
    • Wear a *little* more makeup than you usually would during the day, including powder
  • Dress in what flatters you. Wear colors that you enjoy, and styles that you feel comfortable in! Don't feel like you have to wear a strapless dress! If that is what you love, then go for it! But when it comes to flattering posing, we have a lot more flexibility and variety when armpits are covered.
  • Girls, avoid chippy nail polish, and guys, avoid scruffy facial hair.
  • Consider wearing your dress first (and an undershirt) to make for an easy change into your casual outfit.
  • Bring along flip flops or something comfortable for walking to the location if you plan to wear heels.

Of DVD's and Digital Media...

I feel like I've just pulled the trigger on Old Yeller myself.



Do you remember when you would grab a bowl of popcorn, cuddle up on the couch, and pop in your favorite DVD? For me it was usually something that I had seen a hundred times before like "You've got Mail" or "While you were Sleeping."

But when was the last time you watched, purchased, or were gifted a DVD? For you young couples, do you even have a DVD player in your home??

This past year when we built our house I designed lower cabinets in my fireplace built-ins with the specific purpose of housing my modest collection of DVDs from my teenage years. They're like my old friends that I look back on with fondness, but never take the time to actually visit or chat.

I hold on to them, but I don't really know why.

A while ago (about 2012) Macintosh decided that discs were obsolete. Now none of their products feature disc drives. This was one of the many reasons I was hesitant to go the Mac route (despite ALL of the industry pressure to do so!) but after my 5th PC in a span of 7 years dramatically bit the dust... I got fed up and gave in to the shiny, half-eaten apple.

DVD authoring software used to come free on most every computer. But with each year that passes (and each new update to my PC laptop) it gets more and more difficult to burn a simple DVD. When I started offering videography services I asked around to see what software others in the industry were using to burn DVDs for their clients. I probably shouldn't have been shocked to discover that no one was delivering DVDs. Few were even delivering physical thumb drives either. Digital download is the industry standard, but that's not what I wanted to do.

But it's what I have to do...

  • DVDs are not high definition.
  • DVD authoring software is impossible to find and even harder to get support for.
  • DVD drives are disappearing. It's harder and harder to find ways to play DVDs. While I don't think discs will completely die for a while, have you tried to purchase a DVD player lately?? I have. It's not as easy (or as affordable) as it should be!


I still love DVDs and I don't like to be told what's in my best interest. I want to decide for myself. Maybe I'm just and old romantic holding on to the past but I feel like I've been bullied into giving it up.

So when my laptop PC ran un update last week and my DVD authoring software stopped working I spent five or six hours researching a fix, calling customer service, looking for new software... Only to find that many others were having similar issues. They don't even offer my software for purchase any more (and I bought it just a few months ago when my former software also bit the dust!) I have made the difficult decision to put down my old friend the DVD, and no longer offer that product to my clients.

Many of you have probably already embraced the fact that DVDs are dead, but for any out there that feel the way that I do, do not dwell in sorrow! I really believe that digital is just as (if not more convenient) means of enjoying your wedding videos:

  • Most modern TVs allow for video playback via your jump drive connected to the USB port. (Some older TVs have a USB port but only support images and audio)
  • You can watch your high definition video on your computer (through the jump drive, or online).
  • You can use smart TV or streaming devices to access your web-hosted video content.
  • You can screen cast your web-hosted video from your phone.
  • (Best yet) Unlike DVD, you can easily copy and share your digital video file with your family and friends to your heart's content!


If you've stuck with me this long, let us give our old friend, the DVD, a salute for the many years of happy times it's provided us. Even for the times we threatened to "accidentally break" that one Disney movie with the little snowman and all that singing that our kids would play on repeat five times a day until we lost all of our little-remaining sanity. I will now do as you say and try to just...

"Let it go."